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Aug 10, 2015; San Antonio, TX, USA; Michael Phelps swims in the men’s 200-meter breaststroke final during the Phillips 66 National Championships at Northside Swim Center. Mandatory Credit: Soobum Im-USA TODAY Sports
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Aug 10, 2015; San Antonio, TX, USA; Michael Phelps swims in the men’s 200-meter breaststroke final during the Phillips 66 National Championships at Northside Swim Center. Mandatory Credit: Soobum Im-USA TODAY Sports
Self-realization strikes like lightning. You can’t predict when it’s going to happen. However, when it does, you can see things more clearly. When swimming legend Michael Phelps was struggling with one of the darkest phases of his life, all he did was keep going, and then one day, while he was in the shower, he could finally see the missing piece of life that was making him vulnerable.
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When people look at Michael Phelps, they see a swimmer who was unsurpassed for years. However, there’s a lot to be told about his story. Beyond the gold medals and world records, he has suffered through vulnerabilities that almost made him end his life.
Michael Phelps had a breakthrough in the shower
According to Phelps, the biggest hindrance to his growth in therapy was that “I was afraid to show who I was, so I had all these personas.” However, one day while he was showering, he realized, “Oh my God, do these people think I’m annoying? Do they not want to be around me? Then I thought, Why do I care? If I talk too much, if I laugh really loud or if I’m hyper at times, or a real pain in the ass, at the end of the day why does it really matter?”
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BUENOS AIRES, ARGENTINA – DECEMBER 07: Michael Phelps looks on during a visit to Argentina at El Rosedal Park on December 07, 2017 in Buenos Aires, Argentina. (Photo by Marcelo Endelli/Getty Images)
That was the moment of self-realization for the swimming legend.
Phelps further added, “Right then and there it was like there’s no point for me to try to be somebody I’m not. This is who I am.”
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Phelps received a wholehearted support from people around him
Perhaps Phelps is lucky to have a great bunch of people around him who comforted him during the days when everything seemed lost. His wife, his coach Bowman, his mother, and even his estranged father – everyone was there for him when he needed them the most. Not to forget, he has some really cool people on his friends’ tab, including NFL legend Ray Lewis and Australian swimmer Grant Hackett.
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NEW YORK, NY – AUGUST 28: Olympic swimmer Michael Phelps attends the Press Room at the 2016 MTV Music Video Awards at Madison Square Garden on August 28, 2016 in New York City. (Photo by Dimitrios Kambouris/WireImage)
However, now that Phelps looks back at everything that happened to him, he is more elated than regretful. After all, it is because of these experiences that he now understands his true self.
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