Calling someone a “narcissist” or an “abuser” is a big deal. This could either save lives or destroy lives and the entire scene that unfolded during the Deion Sanders vs Pilar Sanders divorce case points to an intriguing scenario. 12 years ago, Pilar Sanders filed for divorce, alleging that Deion Sanders was a narcissistic “bully” who also had cheated on Pilar with multiple different people. This entire news managed to send the sports star’s reputation into a downward spiral. What followed were years of grueling courtroom battles over the custody of their 3 children and a fight for the share of Deion Sanders’ estate.

With the dust settled and Pilar ultimately losing against the $2.2 million defamation lawsuit by Deion Sanders, you might think that things have gone back to normal. Well, it hasn’t. There is still a lot of bad blood, and fans don’t know what exactly went down between Pilar and Coach Prime. Regardless of what happened, Pilar still has a very powerful message for everyone who is or has gone through a relationship with a narcissistic person. “This is what happens when the partner of a narcissist leaves first,” Pilar wrote on her Instagram story while sharing a reel by @the_enlightened_target.

The reel talks about how when the partner leaving causes the “narcissist” to go through a major denial stage. It breaks down their “superiority” complex and then causes them to go on a smear campaign against their partner because it makes them look like a “loser“.

This is a very important clip. We have seen multiple times how such relationships end in a disaster. Anything can happen. Loss of reputation or even life if it goes that far. What Pilar points out is very important for the younger generation to follow.

Pilar, being the mother of a daughter and two sons, understands what needs to be done to protect her kids. If we look past the entire divorce problem and everything that went down in the proceedings, in recent times, Pilar has become a sort of “perfect mother” for her kids.

Pilar Sanders setting the bar high

Do you know the entire drama between Shelomi Sanders and Deion? Shelomi’s decision to leave the Buffs for A&M wasn’t something Deion took nicely. Coach Prime called the decision “stupid” and didn’t want to be part of it. For now, both of them are doing fine, and they have long since left that bad blood behind.

However, throughout this entire scene, Pilar was the one who was 100% in supporting Shelomi’s decision. From going to practice with her to rolling out VIP treatment for her daughter with home-cooked food, Pilar has done everything. Shelomi needed someone while stepping out of Coach Prime’s shadow, and Pilar Sanders stepped up.

And then the entire thing with Shedeur Sanders? Shedeur had only one wish: to have his mom’s signature homemade popcorn. This was during the NDSU vs Buffs game, and Pilar moved all of her plans aside to make her special popcorn for her son and his friends. 

“He wants popcorn. Well, that’s my specialty. So of course, mommy drops everything,” Pilar pointed out in the video posted to her YouTube channel. We do know that picturing Deion Sanders and Pilar together feels like a distant dream. As Shilo Sanders had pointed out, “That’s like World War III trying to get them to walk together.” However, we do hope they end up finding some middle ground.