Being a public figure is like the world getting to have an opinion about your life. But having a child who’s navigating the process of figuring themselves out in the public eye? That just takes it to a whole other level. For Gabrielle Union, it’s been a rollercoaster ride of love, learning, and way too much public backlash raising Zaya Wade, her stepdaughter with Dwyane Wade.

Every action they take, every statement they make, and every decision they make are scrutinized – whether on the red carpet or on social media – giving them the impression that they are being watched closely. Union has lived long enough to comprehend the demands of fame, but nothing had ever prepared her for the particular difficulties of raising Zaya – who came out as transgender – in public view.

Recently, in a podcast with George M. Johnson, which was shared on Spotify, Gabrielle Union shared her journey and how motherhood has shaped her. She said, “Motherhood has made me a fierce warrior, especially since Zaya… I had to become a different kind of mother… I just don’t have any f*cks to give about how I protect my children and the people that have trusted me to have their backs.” She made it clear that she has a no-nonsense policy when it comes to her child and being mindful of protecting them fearlessly.

She also said, “First, I have to say it’s a little bizarre, there’s no playbook on life, period. There’s certainly no playbook on being a parent. But just the basic humanity for me is to love and protect… So it’s odd when parents, “normal parents” struggle with the basic tenets of humanity.” Her words underscored the importance of being respectful of the feelings and the emotions of the children who are queer, and the parents that raise them.

Despite all the highs and lows, Gabrielle and Dwyane have gone above and beyond to create a loving and accepting space for Zaya. They’ve had to contend with ignorance and battle negativity, and get Zaya heard, seen, and appreciated for who she is. And that’s what parenting is all about, right?

Gabrielle Union on navigating the spotlight, representation, and facing backlash

Zaya has been scrutinized ever since she came out as transgender in 2020. Many people admire her bravery, yet some wrongly condemn it. Being a famous parent is challenging enough, but raising a child in the spotlight is an entirely new ballgame. The difficulties and joys of supporting Zaya in front of the world have been candidly discussed by Gabrielle Union.

According to Gabrielle Wade, representation is crucial, and she recognizes that Zaya’s visibility helps countless young transgender kids feel validated. Every time Zaya steps out confidently, she helps pave the way for others to embrace their own truth. Alas, with visibility comes scrutiny, and the internet has not always been kind.

Union and Wade have faced their fair share of backlash, but instead of shrinking away, they’ve leaned in harder, advocating for LGBTQ+ rights and showing the world what unwavering parental support looks like. Union once said, “It’s watching the love handle the hate that has been encouraging. We’re just loving and accepting our kids, which is not revolutionary. To some people it’s nuts”.

At the end of the day, Gabrielle Union knows this journey isn’t just about their family. It is about shifting the societal perceptions that predominate, standing firm in the face of ignorance and ensuring that kids like Zaya can grow up knowing they are valued. If you’re wondering what drives her? It all comes down to love, a fierce, protective, and unwavering love only a mother can have!